All you have to do is ask yourself two questions first. But if at some point if you change your mind, as we women do, then … So it is much more important for you to ask yourself question B first.
And if you can honestly say "YES, I can give him a gift and not secretly or not-so secretly hold it against him if he doesn't reciprocate," then absolutely, you should get him a gift for Christmas.Then there is nothing cooler than BYOB, or Brewing Your Own Beer. If you're unfamiliar with the world of board games beyond Monopoly, Settlers of Catan is a great place to start — just don't forget to put away all of the little pieces before you have sex on the table after you win. He probably jots his thoughts down on whatever's handy, like in his phone in a million files in his notes app. Sometimes giving a guy winter gear can look a bit grandma-ish, but grandma can't text, can she? Like, a hardcore, take-no-prisoners, I-forgot-to-eat-because-I-was-gaming gamer? If you're a gamer too, you can join in, and if you're not, he'll appreciate that you're supportive of his hobby. Instead, get a gift card that approximately amounts to seeing a set number of movies together. Brooklyn Brew Shop makes kits in a variety of flavors that make DIY brewing easy to do, and you two can get your brew on together. Trying to figure out how to get a tiny game piece out of your butt can definitely bring two people closer together, but you might want to wait til you've known each other a little bit longer for that.6. He'll love when he writes his ideas in that sweet Moleskine pad or unique leather notebook — and it's way, way classier. (Or maybe yours can, in which case, props to your grandma.) Texting glove are super functional and super stylish. And when he's gaming, it's a great excuse for you to catch up on 9. As exciting as this newfound love affair is, suddenly you realize Christmas is right around the corner. With that in mind, why not do some research to see what’s coming to town and surprise your new someone with tickets? Plus, it’s proven that people who spend their time and money on experiences rather than things are way happier, so get happy with your person! We’re not talking about re-gifting that one random bottle of red blend you’ve had sitting in your bar forever. By now, you’re probably privy to your new boo’s go-to drink order, so pay homage to that by gifting them with the ingredients for said drink or something just as fun. You know — what you both like, don’t like, and can’t wait to see.If they’re a whiskey drinker, maybe some ice balls for their next on-the-rocks creation.